"Being tall, handsome, and rich makes a man attractive, right?"
A lot of guys think this way. And while it's not entirely wrong, it’s definitely not the whole story.
Because if it were, then how do we explain those guys who aren’t particularly good-looking, tall, or rich but still ooze confidence and attract women effortlessly?
Yet, women loved him. Meanwhile, I’ve seen plenty of tall, good-looking guys who got boring real quick.
So what does this tell us?
Being attractive isn't just about looks. It's about how you present yourself and how others feel around you.
Today, I’m breaking down the two biggest mistakes that make men unattractive—and how to fix them to become more desirable than even the best-looking guys.
1. Stop Trying to "Play a Role" – Authenticity Is Your Superpower
One of the biggest mistakes unattractive men make is trying to imitate what they think women like.
They see an attractive celebrity, a popular guy on YouTube, or a charming drama character and think, "This is what I need to be like."And then they force themselves to act in ways that don’t fit their true personality.
✔ A quiet guy suddenly tries to be the class clown (X)
✔ A serious guy starts making random jokes (X)
It doesn’t work. It comes across as fake and forced, and women pick up on that immediately.
The truth? People are most attractive when they embrace their natural personality.
A quiet guy is most attractive when he owns his mysterious vibe.
A funny guy is most attractive when his humor flows naturally.
A confident guy is most attractive when his self-assurance comes effortlessly.
What to do instead?
Think about how you act around your closest friends. That’s the real you. That’s the version of yourself that women will find most attractive—because it’s genuine.
2. Stop Prioritizing Others Over Yourself – Set Clear Boundaries
The second mistake? Being too accommodating.
Have you ever:
✔ Always let her pick the time and place for your dates?
✔ Let her choose the restaurant, even when you really wanted something else?
✔ Avoided expressing your real opinions just to "keep her happy"?
If so, here’s the harsh truth: The more you try to please her, the less attractive you become.
You’d think that constantly putting her first would make her like you more. But in reality, it makes you seem weak and desperate. Women respect men who know what they want and stand by it.
What to do instead?
Set clear personal boundaries.
If you feel like eating pizza, say, "I really want pizza today." Even if she prefers pasta.
If you prefer meeting in the evening, say, "Evening works better for me. Let’s do that."
Being assertive doesn’t mean being rude or selfish. It shows confidence and decisiveness—two traits that women find incredibly attractive.
Key Takeaways
✔ Stop trying to "act attractive." Your most natural self is your most attractive self.
✔ Stop always accommodating others. Set clear standards for what you want.
These two mindset shifts will instantly make you more attractive than most "good-looking" guys.
💬 What do you think makes a man attractive? Share your thoughts in the comments!
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