[Day 9] Basic Is Attractive – The Power of a Man with Good Manners

1. Manners are the most underrated form of attraction

We live in a time where being careless is often mistaken for being “cool.”

But women still instinctively pay attention to how you move.

→ Do you interrupt or wait to speak?

→ Do you greet first, hold the door, thank the staff?

→ Do you treat people with basic dignity—without needing an audience?

That’s not boring. That’s deeply attractive.

2. You can dress well, but if your tone is off—you lose her

→ Kind one moment, sarcastic the next?

→ Gentle in the beginning, dismissive after a few weeks?

→ Polite only when you need something?

Manners aren’t about performance.

They’re your baseline.

3. She notices how you treat people who aren’t “useful” to you

→ Is your tone different with service workers?

→ Do you speak down to people who can’t push back?

→ Are you respectful only when someone’s watching?

That’s where your character shows—and she’s watching closely.

4. Manners live in the little things

→ Matching her pace while walking

→ Putting your phone down during conversation

→ Being five minutes early instead of five minutes late

Small actions create invisible trust. And that’s what sticks.

5. Real manners show up *after* things get comfortable

In the beginning, everyone’s polite.

But who are you when emotions rise?

→ Do you still speak with care when you're annoyed?

→ Do you show up with intention, not autopilot?

→ Do you still respect her time, space, and energy?

That’s the kind of man who stays in her mind—and in her life.